“Don’t Enter A Relationship Without Financial Stability”- Pastor Bolaji Idowu

• Pastor Bolaji Idowu, advises against dating while unemployed.
• He highlights that financial instability can impair judgment in choosing a partner.
• Unemployment may restrict personal choices, leading to relationships based on necessity rather than true compatibility.

Pastor Bolaji Idowu, the lead pastor of Harvesters International Christian Center (HICC), has advised against entering romantic relationships while unemployed.

He emphasized that a lack of financial independence can cloud judgment, influencing what individuals consider desirable in a partner. According to Pastor Idowu, unemployment limits personal choices and can lead to relationships based on necessity rather than genuine compatibility.

He further explained that once people secure employment and start earning an income, they often come to the realization that their previous relationships were shaped more by financial hardship than true connection.

His words …

“Don’t date when you are jobless. There are some relationships that are attractive not because they are attractive, it’s because you have no money. When you have your own money, you will be surprised how you should have not fallen in love with some people. It’s not love induced; it was hunger induced. Never negotiate on an hungry stomach, youl will get a bad deal. Crumbs mentality – when you are poor, small things satisfy you easily. One of the signs of crumbs mentality is that you settle for less so easily. Shift in your thinking. I’m saying you need to think in abundance. I hang around people and when I hear the things that they used to talk about – ‘if I can just travel to America’. How can traveling to America be a goal.”

See some coments below:

@drexxcater1: “Don’t pay tithes when you’re jobless too or give offering 🤝”

@_shotbytwitwi: “Money na water lenu pastor 😂😂😂”

@vado2023: “When you have a job,you can date as many as you want”

@Lord_karmacruz: “Just different opinions everytime”

@Akomandaniels: ““Where you are poor small things satisfy you ” 🔥🔥”

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